Monday, 09 March 2009
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Hedonism
By Skunk Anansie
see relatedHe's chasing after me or what?
ok haha I don't know what's gonna be my reaction to this.
I thought my bf is really over me for good.
But you know what, after 9 days of not talking to each other, we're both silent, and I'm trying to move on, he's calling me unexpectedly but I never picked up the phone, I kept rejecting it.
I kinda made a revenge after all what he did to me. The last time we had argument, I lower down my pride and say sorry, I called him up but he also rejected my call. And now he's calling me after 9 days? wtf? What's going on with him. What does he expect? He's had a follow up text since I didn't pick up the phone, and he was like "sorry, i want us to be friends, if you don't want to pick it up I respect that, but one thing, I still love you"....damn!
I would never ever get back with him. I want him to feel the pain he caused me last week.
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Comments (2)
If you keep splitting and getting back together that's a bad thing, there's plenty of fish in the sea, and I know he's your first love and that's a special place in your heart but there's other guys out there that will make you even more happy and you just haven't met them yet.
You might think this is as good as it gets, but he's just the salad, the desert is yet to come! You need to realize that he's confused, he's unsure what to do, that's why there was the sudden split, and he must have thought about what he wanted to do next, and that's why it took him so long to respond. If he really did have strong feelings for you I'm sure it would have taken much less time than that!
I could be wrong, but judging from your previous posts, like being ignorant on his birthday and just not calling and so on is a bad sign, long distance is serious and if he knows that and means it he would be trying harder. If it was me I wouldn't get back with him.
Leave it off, let him cool down, now he's just gonna want more from you, and what do you want? Friendship. So I'm saying to let him realize that you have moved on. Show him you can be a strong independent woman, like rehab from the drug of desire for man. Even years after being sober from alcohol, people fear of one drink, it's not the same, but it takes time as well, not years but don't go to him now cause as much as you may feel strong about leaving him you never know how in that moment when he says all the right things and brings back all the perfect memories how you will react. It should be at a time when you are sure that he understands your definition of 'friendship' or that you are 1001% confident that you won't want him any more than that!
Well that's just my opinion, you know the situation better and I'm sure you can figure out what's the best course of action to follow! But staying away for a while is definitely a must, then it clears your head a little and you can see what you want, maybe go out and check other options? That's another way to show him you are over him, you're interested elsewhere!
Yep if you didn't work out the first time, you work work out the 2nd, 5th or 10th time especially if there has been a lot of hurt involved!