Tuesday, 31 March 2009
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Do I drive men away? or what
ok I kind of get to experience this a lot.Everytime a guy gets to like me, they text and stuffs, make an effort, but I'm not showing interest, by not texting them back or sometimes I'm replying too late.
But that's just me cuz I wanna make sure if he's true or sincere to me, that's how I test guys. And sometimes when they stop talking to me, I kind of wonder why? I hate this feeling, and that's the time I realized that he's a great guy. But I just don't have the nerve to send random messages or quotes.
Well, do you think with my style I would drive men away?
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If I liked a girl and she ignored my texts and calls, that's basically the universal message to any guy with a clue that "Hey, she doesn't like you, so move on." So yes, I can see how your style drives men away. How can you expect a guy to be sincere or true to you when you aren't reciprocating communication?
I can understand where you're coming from...You don't want to seem eager, and want to make sure the guy seriously likes you first..
Am I right?
The bad thing about that is that the guy will get the feeling that you don't like them, because of the standoff-ish behavior. You can still not be eager, while still showing them you're interested. Texts aren't "end-of-the-world" important, but if he's calling you, he likes you. Answer the call, return the call..Something!
When you text throw in some winky or smiley faces, but not too many(also avoid exclamation points). Just sending plain texts, super-short messages, and waiting more than 10 mins to answer makes guys think that you think talking to them is an imposition.
I hope my advice helped!
@jolisa_betteroffalone -
hey thanks for this input. Yeah I think I have to do something.
@incuman33@xanga -
yeah makes me think , you're right thankss
They probably stop talking to you because they think you aren't interested. I've learned a guy will quickly come to a conclusion about whether a girl is into them or not, because if not, they wanna move onto other possibilities as soon as possible. I hope that makes sense.